@tha3loub Now I know who you are referring to. The TLR member and I have exchanged few emails back and forth about her situation and her ex. Yes he is 100% a non honest person (We don’t use the term rat here).
I have promised her not to mention her TLR username on this site, and I’m keeping that promess.
But I’ll just say this honest opinion one last time and I will move on to other more important things :
“I think it takes maturity and experience to properly move on and get over a breakup. Age doesn’t define the level of maturity, being a nice person does, and mostly being emotionnally intelligent.
Once you understand that not all relationships are meant to last forever, you start to look at things through a new lens.
In life, we learn, we grow, we progress. People get new jobs, buy new cars, find new friends, and move to new homes but, nobody ever dwells on the ones they used to have.
I think your results are also the result of your behavior, you can take at least fifty percent responsibility for your outcome.
You want to take revenge so that you could feel good but in return you are hurt the most!
This behavior is not helping what so called “other victims” and play God. I still beleive this is something that looks like “If I can”t have him, nobody can”.
That is basically understood as you will make someone’s life a living hell. Everything from harassing the person, harassing anyone else the person meets or knows in their life, and everything in between.
If others find out what you did, (and they will) they also will think less of you and they won’t tell you.
You’ll be encouraged only by those who like to pour more fuel on fire. “Birds of a feather flock together”
By doing something mean to an ex and seek revenge, that person would only feel glad the relationship is over.”
2 years ago
