Sexual tourism and Tunisian hotel infestations

[Diego]

Many old women sexual tourists are “situational abusers”, meaning that they may not consistently engage in the practice but will take advantage of the opportunity when it arises.

Sexual tourism allows these women to feel free from the social restraints governing their behaviour at home. They discard their moral values abroad and think they can escape the consequences by taking advantage of vulnerable Tunisians by offering them money and visa promises.

These older women that come to the Tunisian hotels are more likely to come because they feel they have no other option- they have been made to feel by society that their ageing bodies are undesirable and shameful, and have felt pressured to keep their bodies to the western standards of female attract-ability: slim, youthful, fully shaved etc.

Here, there is the idea that young Tunisian hotel workers like different and new natural bodies. Secondly, because there is the aspect of money and visa involved, they are guaranteed to be accepted for what they are. Therefore, they are freed from the pressure of up-keeping their bodies to the unrealistic societal standards.
In addition, the older women that come are not only looking for pure sex, but a human touch that is more emotionally rooted. They’re not just hungry for sex, they are often lonely having felt sidelined by men their own age, even their husbands.

Tunisian Love Rats forum made me wonder how much the sex tourism at Tunisian hotels encourages this sort of behaviour- in that, when the women still feel undesired and dissatisfied, they take out their frustration on the young Tunisian men by naming and shaming them online.
A heartbreaking moment at the end of the what so called “Genuine relationship”, is when in a desperate last attempts, they attempt to make Tunisians they met to have sex with them, give them attention, and be loyal to them. Tunisians never advertised themselves as sex workers, and their attempts to coerce them are incredibly uncomfortable to watch. They refuse their demands, explaining that they finds the situation sad and unpleasing.

I see the majority of TLR old women change from a lonely women looking for true and natural intimacy, to, as a result of not getting what they wanted, women even more lonely than when they arrived, desperate for any form of sexual touch, and willing to degrade the young Tunisian men around them to get it.
To me, I found this racist TLR forum suggests that sex tourism in Tunisia breeds unhappiness and degradation for everyone involved. I wonder if this is the reality.

 

 

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There is an old/new Pinocchio on TLR lol

[Diego]

“Honestly, other Tunisians don’t care or are not willing to do anything about it. Whatever you do or say will come back on you and won’t hurt him one bit.”

Why other Tunisians should care? We are not responsible for your own problems. You chose to pay for attention, chase young Tunisians and pay them, in retrun you want love and care. Why would a handsome young Tunsian be with an old ugly lady? You offered money and visa, he accepted. It’s a win win game 🙂

I always beleive in a magic word that solves all your problems, which is : NO

You have been asked for money? Say the fucking magic word : NO
It’s gonna save you a lot of heart ache and keep your bank account full.

Be wise, don’t be stupid (most of you are), and mostly take responsabilties of your own actions and decisions. Don’t balme the Tunisians by saying “It’s only the rats fault”. No you stupid old cows, you are to blame too.

Would you pay a local young man for love and attention? YOu’d never do that. Cause you are old sex predators only hunting for vulnerable young Tunisians.

Again, you are not victims, you are sex predators same as old men doing the same thing in Asia 😉

 

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