Don’t post anything you might regret

[Diego]

A review sent by an anynymous user via the “Online Tunisian Love forums” :

Be very careful if you join tlr because once you are a member you cannot get anything deleted.

I joined a few years ago on the advice of a twags group on Facebook as I’d met a Tunisian man on holiday and was contemplating a relationship with him. I was warned about rats and visa geezers so I decided to join tlr to do my due diligence.

I joined tlr and couldn’t find any trace of the man. I shared my situation with them and they convinced me that he would be a rat and after money and/or a visa. I didn’t get any rat vibes from him and after a lot of thought I decided to see him again. I’m so glad I did. If I’d have listened to them I would be missing out on a happy marriage and a beautiful baby.

I admit that I carried on being a tlr member as the drama was entertaining during my night shifts at work. There are a lot of older ladies on there and clearly some are in relationships that might not be genuine. However the problem is that these ladies egg each other on and it’s easy to get caught up in the momentum and to be fair it was fun to wind them up a bit. These ladies also don’t see their own role in their situation. If you’re old enough to be his mum then you are too old! (There are some exceptions).

I’ve seen it with my own eyes when we’ve been to Tunisia. My brother in law was accosted in the hotel by an old French lady who just wanted sex. She told him she was 35 😂 she was clearly in her 50s, he’s in his 20s. She’d already accosted other young Tunisians working at the hotel. A lot of these older ladies are sex tourists and don’t like it when the Tunisians play them at their own game. Yes rats do exist but they are a small minority however these ladies use it as an excuse for their poor behaviour and decision making.

I digress. So back to tlr. I asked for my profile and all activity to be deleted last year when tunisianlove started up. I was and am scared of being doxxed by tunisianlove. My husband knows I was on tlr as I’m honest with him but it’s still not nice to have that threat hanging over you. I also had significant health issue at the time which totally changed my personality and behaviour. Tlr refused to delete anything and banned me so I couldn’t contact them to discuss.

I’ll admit my postings on tlr are not my finest moments and I’ve probably said some things unfairly and not stepped up and called them out when they’ve been unfair. Lesson learned.

I’m still on the twag Facebook groups and to be fair very few twags have any respect for tlr. You can see the tlr members a mile off as they spout off that all Tunisians are rats and then get banned. They don’t get the same sympathy when they share their sob stories on the twags group so they go to tlr as the mob mentality gives them validation.

So as I said, join at your own risk because you post on there you can’t have anything deleted.

• Your desired name/username: Notarat
• Name of the Online Forum: Tunisianloverats.com

 

[Diego]

Hi Anonymous user “Notarat”,

Thank you for your review, I appreciate it. You have said it all.

You said :
Be very careful if you join tlr because once you are a member you cannot get anything deleted

My reply :
Once you join TLR, there’s no turning back, they still believe that ever woman will come back to TLR asking for help again. Not only that, they intentionally keep posts and comments to keep the drama going.
We did force some TLR members to delete their accounts and content (photos, threads and names, only when they have still access to their TLR accounts, TLR know it and they won’t admit it, we will soon share the full list of the deleted accounts with the content) by contacting their Tunisian exes.
But it is very hard to get content deleted when TLR ban you, because they don’t like people to disagree with them (Unless you take legal action against the by claiming your ‘right to erasure’ request, previously known as ‘the right to be forgotten’ under the GDPR data deletion obligations.).

You said :
I decided to see him again. I’m so glad I did. If I’d have listened to them I would be missing out on a happy marriage and a beautiful baby.

My reply :
Let me guess, I’m 100% sure that they are not happy for you living a happy life, leave them hanging .

You said :
I admit that I carried on being a tlr member as the drama was entertaining during my night shifts at work. …. However the problem is that these ladies egg each other on and it’s easy to get caught up in the momentum and to be fair it was fun to wind them up a bit. These ladies also don’t see their own role in their situation. If you’re old enough to be his mum then you are too old!

My reply :
Isn’t the only thing they do? They always plant seeds of doubt and hate. They hate themselves, they envy foreign women who have successful relationships with Tunisians. They want you to be like them, miserable, lonely and full of hate.

You said :
A lot of these older ladies are sex tourists and don’t like it when the Tunisians play them at their own game. Yes rats do exist but they are a small minority however these ladies use it as an excuse for their poor behaviour and decision making.

My reply :
Exactly is how I see it, these old women are sex tourists, seriously what an old woman could expect from a young Tunisian man? Love? that’s bullshit, they are both using each other, they both deserve each other.

You said :
I also had significant health issue at the time which totally changed my personality and behaviour.

My reply :
I hope that you will get well soon, you are strong and you will be ok 🙂

You said :
I’ll admit my postings on tlr are not my finest moments and I’ve probably said some things unfairly and not stepped up and called them out when they’ve been unfair. Lesson learned.

My reply :
Of course, this is how TLR works, they don’t care about who you are and where you’re coming from, they always send hidden messages between the lines to make you hate Tunisians more and more even when you are in a healthy relationship, they make you feel like you are one of them, they ask about how are you feeling from time to time, not because they miss you, NO, they are just nosy and curious old ladies, they want and wish to hear that your relationship with the Tunisian is over, they want you down, broken and sad, it is when they will will drag and make you join their circle of hate. They feed from other people’s pain and misery.

You said :
I’m still on the twag Facebook groups and to be fair very few twags have any respect for tlr. You can see the tlr members a mile off as they spout off that all Tunisians are rats and then get banned. They don’t get the same sympathy when they share their sob stories on the twags group so they go to tlr as the mob mentality gives them validation.

My reply :
Oh yes, we know everyone of them, they are in multiple groups using fake profiles, and some of them are thick enough to use their real profiles.
As I have said it before, seeing them in pain, full of hate, and with not a single positive feeling in their dark hearts, there’s always a victory in that for us.

You said :
I was and am scared of being doxxed by tunisianlove….but it’s still not nice to have that threat hanging over you….

My reply :

You are safe with us.

We at TunisianLove.com , we don’t publish names or photos, we receive anonymous comments and reviews that are automatically made public in the forum with an automatic wrong user attribution, (We are working on fixing these issues.). We admins and moderators immediatly delete reported content.

We don’t do stalking and harrassement like TLR members do, we are here only to know the other side of the story, we wanna know the truth, we expose liars, racists, jealous, sex tourists and bitter exes.

After contacting the Tunsiian man, when we find out that he is a rat and a scammer, (They can’t resist a girl voice, can’t they? that’s how they tell us everything hahaha) , we don’t contact him again and simply say F*** off.
But when we find out that the man is not a rat, we keep exposing the woman from TLR who are racists, who publish lies about Tunisians, and mainly the memebers (the admins/moderators) who publish and allow photos of innocent Tunisian children online.

We don’t know who you are, we don’t know if you are already in the Hall Of Shame page or not, but :

If your TLR username is in the Hall Of Shame page, we can’t remove your name unless your request your name deletion (Also if we gonna delete your name, they will know your TLR username is no longer visible on that page, yeah they visit everyday and they are very good at stalking)

If your TLR username is not in the Hall Of Shame page, if you are comfortable and you wish your TLR username and content not to be mentionned on our site in the future, please contact me or the moderator @Korkmush via this page :  http://tunisianlove.com/contacts/ by telling us : What is the first letter of your old TLR username?
Please remember, you don’t have to tell us anything at all if you are not comfortable with it.

(Please use any fake email adress that doesn’t mention your real identity, the email content is 100% private.).

Stay safe, stay healthy and take care.

 

[Author]

Posts